Not long ago, Alesia was trapped in a rotten marriage. The sex? Well, it sucked. “It was more about him getting off and not worrying about how I feel,” Alesia, 45, said. “If he finished before me, he’d roll over and go to sleep. I went to Catholic school, and oral sex and all that kind of sex was bad, so I never went down on my hubby, and he’d say to me, ‘If you go down on me, I’ll go down on you.’ I thought sex was a duty. It was a chore. But I did a 360.” That 360-degree turn has brought her to the 40SomethingMag.com styling room, where she tells us all about herself in this entertaining, informative interview. For example, she used to be a Republican committeewoman. “I think everybody would be shocked out of their minds if they knew I was doing this,” Alesia said. Shocked? Maybe. But we see gals like this all the time. They’re what make 40SomethingMag.com special.